ABOUT:

This is a casual discussion group meant to support adoptive, fostering, & kinship parents and to build relationships between parents and their adopted/fostered children of all ages through community, conversation, and educational materials.

Each month we discuss part of a book or topic. We do this in an attempt to cover a larger variety of related issues, to increase our knowledge and awareness of the information that is out there, and to maximize our resources for the future. Although not required, sharing personal experiences and asking questions are encouraged. There is No requirement to read the chapters or to come to all discussions. Facilitators are committed to increasing their learning and understanding through the insight and perspective of other triad members, This group offers a safe place to share individual opinions and personal experiences, and ask questions openly and honestly about relinquishment and adoption-related issues.

-NOTE- Encompass Adoptees encourages critical thinking that takes into account all triad members in regard to all books and resources. Book discussions or reading lists in no way imply agreement with all portions of a book, nor does it indicate any endorsement of the author/s, their programs, techniques, etc.

Details at a Glance:

• Meets every 2nd Thursday of the month (except Dec for the holidays)

• In-Person- Meets at Encompass Adoptees at 122 S Terrace Ave, parking is alone the side of the building and on the street

• Facilitated by: Heather Gonzales LPC, an adult adoptee, licensed therapist, and the Founder and Director at Encompass + Amber Riley, the parent of 5 kids, 3 of which are adopted

• Child care is available for families who need this in order to arttend- Preregistion is required at least 1 week in advance - see link below.

• Currently discussing topics from: The Body Keeps the Score

• Discussing Ch - 9

This Program is Hosted, Developed, and Facilitated by Encompass Adoptees and is currently Funded and Sponsored by Ohio KAN

Suicidality and Prevention with Unique Populations

by Dr. Melanie Chung-Sherman, DSW, LCSW-S, PLLC, Adult Adoptee Therapist

Encompass Adoptees Adoption Issues Online Speaker Series

Presentation Description:  

According to the Centers for Disease Control the U.S. suicide rate increased by 2.6% from 2021-2022 with the highest rates of suicides by females ages 10-14 years old and males 45-64 years old ([CDC], 2016). It is one of the ten leading causes of death (CDC, 2023) within the general population, but when these statistics are deconstructed there are factors to consider such as race, gender expression, sexual identity, immigrant status, mental health, and more related to the needs of unique populations.  LGBTQIA+ youth, particularly transgender youth, are at an increased risk of suicide attempts as well as death by nearly 50% of the general population (Haas, et al.  2011). In October 2013, the University of Minnesota’s Department of Psychology released their longitudinal findings about suicide behavior, adoption status, and non-adoption status among siblings, which revealed that adopted youth were four times more likely to attempt suicide than their non-adopted peers (Keys, et al., 2013).  Within communities of color, particularly African-American, veteran, and immigrant communities, there is a heightened risk of suicide attempts and completion (Crosy & Molock, 2006; Chung, et al., 2015).  

While minority-status alone does not cause suicidal ideation or attempts, it is critical to examine the unique variables that may contribute to a higher risk of suicide within special populations that social workers encounter including, but not limited to the LGBTQIA community, people of color, and special needs to name a few. In accordance to the NASW Code of Ethics, it is critical that social workers remain knowledgeable and proficient in analyzing suicidal risk factors to intervene and help prevent death by suicide, but equally important is addressing suicidality in unique populations through a culturally competent lens. Conversely, social workers must also learn to address the protective factors that may enhance resiliency and reduce suicidal risk. 

This two-hour interactive workshop will explore some of the unique factors to consider related to suicidality and unique populations, particularly within the adoption community, as well as equip attendees with rudimentary knowledge of the following by utilizing video, lecture, and audience participation:

•  Unique factors relevant to culturally-competent suicide risk management 

• Common myths related to suicidality and mental health

• Basic intervention strategies related to suicide prevention and education including Zero Suicide Initiative 

• Recognizing the differences between non-lethal self-harm and suicide thoughts or attempt

• Prevention resources to better educate the broader community

  
  

References

Chung, I. W., Caine, E. D., Barron, C. T., & Badaracco, M. A. (2015). Clinical and psychosocial profiles of asian immigrants who repeatedly attempt suicide: A mixed-method study of risk and protective factors. Crisis: The Journal of Crisis Intervention and Suicide Prevention, 36(5), 353-362. doi:http://dx.doi.org.library.collin.edu/10.1027/0227-5910/a000334

Crosby, A., & Molock, S. D. (2006). Suicidal Behaviors in the African American Community. The Journal of Black Psychology, 32(3), 1–9. http://doi.org/10.1177/0095798406290552

Curtin S.C., Warner, M. & Hedegaard, H. (2016). Increase in suicide in the United States, 1999–2014. NCHS data brief, no 241. Hyattsville, MD: National Center for Health Statistics. Retrieved from https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/products/databriefs/db241.htm

Haas, A. P., Eliason, M., Mays, V. M., Mathy, R. M., Cochran, S. D., D’augelli, A. R., … Clayton, P. J. (2011). Suicide and Suicide Risk in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Populations: Review and Recommendations. Journal of Homosexuality, 58(1), 10–51. http://doi.org/10.1080/00918369.2011.534038

Keyes, M. A., Malone, S. M., Sharma, A., Iacono, W. G., & McGue, M. (2013). Risk of Suicide Attempt in Adopted and Nonadopted Offspring. Pediatrics, 132(4), 639–646. http://doi.org/10.1542/peds.2012-3251

 https://zerosuicide.sprc.org/

Presenter Bio:

Melanie is a licensed clinical social worker and TSBSWE-Board-approved clinical supervisor through the State of Texas. She also holds a clinical social work license in Louisiana. She is a Certified Theraplay® Practitioner and EMDR-trained clinician. She is also the founder and owner of a private practice in Dallas, Texas, where she specializes in working with predominantly QTBIPOC-identified clients and transracial adult-adopted individuals.  She is a psychotherapist and clinical social work supervisor at the University of Texas Southwestern Medical Center’s Paul Bass Outpatient Psychiatric Clinic. She works with UTSW’s Multidisciplinary Outpatient Eating Disorder Team and UTSW Outpatient Psychiatry and Psychology Training Committee. She was a regional clinical manager for a national eating disorder treatment center and is seeking her CEDS (Certified Eating Disorder Specialist Certification) through IAEDP™. She was the Region 3 Representative for the NASW-Texas State Board of Directors from 2019-2022.  She has worked in child welfare, mental health, university counseling, and medical social work for over 20 years. She is an adjunct professor of Social Work at the University of Alabama, Tulane University, and Collin College. She is the first Asian-Pacific Islander awarded the University of Alabama's School of Social Work 2023 Doctoral of Social Work Honors Award for Writing for the Advancement of Social Justice. She is a DSW/doctoral clinical social work candidate at the University of Alabama, Tuscaloosa, whose research focuses on transracial adoption, collective narcissism, and colonialism in the psychotherapeutic process (Roll Tide!). She has spoken internationally, nationally, and state-wide regarding Asian-Pacific Islander mental health, transracial adoption dynamics, suicide prevention within marginalized populations, and inclusive mental health care and eating disorders. 

Her passion includes education and elevating the voices of marginalized and oppressed groups, notably adopted LGBTQIA+ and adopted folx & women/femme of color, to combat mental health stigma, address power-based violence, and deconstruct structural oppression. 

Cost— $15 Reduced Rate — This Program is sponsored by funds from Ohio Kinect

About:

This is a casual discussion group meant to support adoptive, fostering, & kinship parents and to build relationships between parents and their adopted/fostered children of all ages through community, conversation, and educational materials.

Each month we discuss part of a book or topic. We do this in an attempt to cover a larger variety of related issues, to increase our knowledge and awareness of the information that is out there, and to maximize our resources for the future. Although not required, sharing personal experiences and asking questions are encouraged. There is No requirement to read the chapters or to come to all discussions. Facilitators are committed to increasing their learning and understanding through the insight and perspective of other triad members, This group offers a safe place to share individual opinions and personal experiences, and ask questions openly and honestly about relinquishment and adoption-related issues.

-NOTE- Encompass Adoptees encourages critical thinking that takes into account all triad members in regard to all books and resources. Book discussions or reading lists in no way imply agreement with all portions of a book, nor does it indicate any endorsement of the author/s, their programs, techniques, etc.

Details at a Glance:

• Meets every 1st Thursday of the month (except Dec for the holidays)

• Online/ Zoom group -Please email us or pre-register in order to get the zoom link. After you have come once, and the group is able to verify new members are adoptive parents (to ensure a safe space for all attending), you can request to be added to the email list that receives the new link and password each month.

• Facilitated by: Heather Gonzales LPC, an adult adoptee, licensed therapist, and the Founder and Director at Encompass + Olivia Hamilton, a foster and adoptive parent and pastor of The Brood, a ministry for foster, adoptive, and kinship families (This space is designed to be inclusive of all people regardless of your faith/spiritual tradition or lack thereof)

• Currently discussing topics from: Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew

• Discussing ch 18-22

This Program is Hosted, Developed, and Facilitated by Encompass Adoptees

and is currently Funded and Sponsored by Ohio KAN

ABOUT:

This is a casual discussion group meant to support adoptive, fostering, & kinship parents and to build relationships between parents and their adopted/fostered children of all ages through community, conversation, and educational materials.

Each month we discuss part of a book or topic. We do this in an attempt to cover a larger variety of related issues, to increase our knowledge and awareness of the information that is out there, and to maximize our resources for the future. Although not required, sharing personal experiences and asking questions are encouraged. There is No requirement to read the chapters or to come to all discussions. Facilitators are committed to increasing their learning and understanding through the insight and perspective of other triad members, This group offers a safe place to share individual opinions and personal experiences, and ask questions openly and honestly about relinquishment and adoption-related issues.

-NOTE- Encompass Adoptees encourages critical thinking that takes into account all triad members in regard to all books and resources. Book discussions or reading lists in no way imply agreement with all portions of a book, nor does it indicate any endorsement of the author/s, their programs, techniques, etc.

Details at a Glance:

• Meets every 2nd Thursday of the month (except Dec for the holidays)

• In-Person- Meets at Encompass Adoptees at 122 S Terrace Ave, parking is alone the side of the building and on the street

• Facilitated by: Heather Gonzales LPC, an adult adoptee, licensed therapist, and the Founder and Director at Encompass + Amber Riley, the parent of 5 kids, 3 of which are adopted

• Child care is available for families who need this in order to arttend- Preregistion is required at least 1 week in advance - see link below.

• Currently discussing topics from: The Body Keeps the Score

• Discussing Ch - 8

This Program is Hosted, Developed, and Facilitated by Encompass Adoptees and is currently Funded and Sponsored by Ohio KAN

Consensual Touch & Trauma Informed Medical Exams

by Molly McHenry, Family Nurse Practitioner, Adoptive Parent

Encompass Adoptees Adoption Issues Online Speaker Series

Presentation Description:

This presentation will explore how to navigate consensual touch within the medical setting while providing care for all ages. With high rates of adverse childhood events (ACEs) in the general public, it is prudent to approach all patient care with a trauma-informed lens. For example, asking for consent before touching allows the onus of control to reside with the patient while simultaneously building trust and rapport. Modeling consensual touch can empower and embolden people to expect touch to be consensual in all aspects of their lives and encourage a sense of self advocacy. 

Presenter Bio:

Molly McHenry is a family nurse practitioner who has cared for kids, adolescents, and young adults on the margins for over 15 years. Her medical practice is rooted in a harm-reduction, empowerment, and justice. She has served disenfranchised young people in Portland OR, NYC, Boston MA, and now Cincinnati Ohio, where she was born and raised. She has expertise in caring for LGBTQ populations, youth who are incarcerated, youth in foster care, homeless youth, youth struggling with mental illness and addiction, youth forced into survival sex and sex-trafficking, youth who are HIV+ or at risk of exposure to HIV, and youth living in poverty. She currently works in the community health department at Cincinnati Children’s Hospital splitting her time between a school-based community health center, the lead poisoning clinic, and the foster care medical clinic. She is in the process of completing her psychiatric mental health nurse practitioner degree in hopes of better serving the needs of the youth in her care. She is a foster parent, a priest's wife, queer-identified, and hell-bent on making things better for all children. 

Cost:

$15 Reduced Rate - This program is sponsored by funding from Ohio Kinnect.

This is a casual dinner to enjoy good food and good conversations, with other adult adopted and fostered, and/or kinshipped people. This group meets every first Thursday of the month, and rotates between dinners at the Market and online presentation given by Adult Adoptee Therapist. See schedule below.

Until the weather warms up, we will meet at East Market - Choose what you want for dinner from the vendors and join us at a table to eat and chat!

• RSVP is helpful, but not necessary- there is plenty of seating.

• Find us upstairs- get what food you want then go up the stairs by the Plant Gays booth and you will see us

• Conversation is casual and self-directed - no one is forced to talk and there are no discussion questions prepared beforehand

• Support Group Schedule 2024:

  • JAN 4 - Adult Adoptee Dinner @ East Market

  • FEB 1 - Adult Adoptee Therapist online presentation- Pamala Cordano on Attachment specific differences for adoptees

  • MARCH 7 - Adult Adoptee Dinner @ East Market

  • APRIL 4 - Adult Adoptee Therapist online presentation- Melanie Chung Sherman on adoption, self-harm, and suicide

  • MAY 2- Adult Adoptee Dinner @ East Market

  • June 6- Adult Adoptee online Presentation - Astrid Castro on the intersection of history, adoption and mental health

About:

This is a casual discussion group meant to support adoptive, fostering, & kinship parents and to build relationships between parents and their adopted/fostered children of all ages through community, conversation, and educational materials.

Each month we discuss part of a book or topic. We do this in an attempt to cover a larger variety of related issues, to increase our knowledge and awareness of the information that is out there, and to maximize our resources for the future. Although not required, sharing personal experiences and asking questions are encouraged. There is No requirement to read the chapters or to come to all discussions. Facilitators are committed to increasing their learning and understanding through the insight and perspective of other triad members, This group offers a safe place to share individual opinions and personal experiences, and ask questions openly and honestly about relinquishment and adoption-related issues.

-NOTE- Encompass Adoptees encourages critical thinking that takes into account all triad members in regard to all books and resources. Book discussions or reading lists in no way imply agreement with all portions of a book, nor does it indicate any endorsement of the author/s, their programs, techniques, etc.

Details at a Glance:

• Meets every 1st Thursday of the month (except Dec for the holidays)

• Online/ Zoom group -Please email us or pre-register in order to get the zoom link. After you have come once, and the group is able to verify new members are adoptive parents (to ensure a safe space for all attending), you can request to be added to the email list that receives the new link and password each month.

• Facilitated by: Heather Gonzales LPC, an adult adoptee, licensed therapist, and the Founder and Director at Encompass + Olivia Hamilton, a foster and adoptive parent and pastor of The Brood, a ministry for foster, adoptive, and kinship families (This space is designed to be inclusive of all people regardless of your faith/spiritual tradition or lack thereof)

• Currently discussing topics from: Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew

• Discussing ch 13-17

This Program is Hosted, Developed, and Facilitated by Encompass Adoptees

and is currently Funded and Sponsored by Ohio KAN

ABOUT:

This is a casual discussion group meant to support adoptive, fostering, & kinship parents and to build relationships between parents and their adopted/fostered children of all ages through community, conversation, and educational materials.

Each month we discuss part of a book or topic. We do this in an attempt to cover a larger variety of related issues, to increase our knowledge and awareness of the information that is out there, and to maximize our resources for the future. Although not required, sharing personal experiences and asking questions are encouraged. There is No requirement to read the chapters or to come to all discussions. Facilitators are committed to increasing their learning and understanding through the insight and perspective of other triad members, This group offers a safe place to share individual opinions and personal experiences, and ask questions openly and honestly about relinquishment and adoption-related issues.

-NOTE- Encompass Adoptees encourages critical thinking that takes into account all triad members in regard to all books and resources. Book discussions or reading lists in no way imply agreement with all portions of a book, nor does it indicate any endorsement of the author/s, their programs, techniques, etc.

Details at a Glance:

• Meets every 2nd Thursday of the month (except Dec for the holidays)

• In-Person- Meets at Encompass Adoptees at 122 S Terrace Ave, parking is alone the side of the building and on the street

• Facilitated by: Heather Gonzales LPC, an adult adoptee, licensed therapist, and the Founder and Director at Encompass + Amber Riley, the parent of 5 kids, 3 of which are adopted

• Child care is available for families who need this in order to arttend- Preregistion is required at least 1 week in advance - see link below.

• Currently discussing topics from: The Body Keeps the Score

• Discussing Ch - 7

This Program is Hosted, Developed, and Facilitated by Encompass Adoptees and is currently Funded and Sponsored by Ohio KAN

New Insights into Adoptee Attachment (and why traditional attachment models are inadequate)

by Pamela Cordano, MFT, Adult Adoptee Therapist

Encompass Adoptees Adoption Issues Online Speaker Series

Presentation Description:

As a therapist for 30 years (and an adoptee for 58), I’ve worked hard to understand the impact of relinquishment and adoption on one’s ability to find an authentic and stable sense of belonging in this world. Leading models of attachment theory do not adequately fit the adoptee experience. In this talk I will share powerful and difficult-to-language aspects of the adoptee’s challenge to form attachments, with the hope that a deeper understanding will help all parties in the adoption triad. 

This presentation is designed for participants at an Intermediate skill/familiarity level with this topic.

Presenter Bio:

Pamela Cordano, MFT is a psychotherapist and adoptee from California who is passionate about healing in community. Most of her work over 30 years has been focused on clients who experience serious illness or tragedy, where life was one way and suddenly changed on a dime. She later realized the trauma of this population mirrored her early life experience and that of many adoptees. Inspired by Viktor Frankl, Pam helps clients identify and cultivate what is uniquely meaningful to them, which allows for increased vitality and new possibilities. What excites her the most is helping people move from despair to finding a deeper Yes to their own lives. Because Pam is particularly interested in the power of healthy community to amplify the healing process, she facilitates healing courses and retreats for adult adoptees.

Author of:

The Extraordinary Superpowers of Adoptees article: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/the-extraordinary-superpowers-of-adoptees_us_5987a781e4b0f2c7d93f5702

And book 10 Foundations for a Meaningful Life (no matter what’s happened) 

Cost:

$15 Reduced Rate Due to partial funding given by Ohio Kinect/ KAN

This Program is sponsored by funding from Ohio Kinnect.

About:

This is a casual discussion group meant to support adoptive, fostering, & kinship parents and to build relationships between parents and their adopted/fostered children of all ages through community, conversation, and educational materials.

Each month we discuss part of a book or topic. We do this in an attempt to cover a larger variety of related issues, to increase our knowledge and awareness of the information that is out there, and to maximize our resources for the future. Although not required, sharing personal experiences and asking questions are encouraged. There is No requirement to read the chapters or to come to all discussions. Facilitators are committed to increasing their learning and understanding through the insight and perspective of other triad members, This group offers a safe place to share individual opinions and personal experiences, and ask questions openly and honestly about relinquishment and adoption-related issues.

-NOTE- Encompass Adoptees encourages critical thinking that takes into account all triad members in regard to all books and resources. Book discussions or reading lists in no way imply agreement with all portions of a book, nor does it indicate any endorsement of the author/s, their programs, techniques, etc.

Details at a Glance:

• Meets every 1st Thursday of the month (except Dec for the holidays)

• Online/ Zoom group -Please email us or pre-register in order to get the zoom link. After you have come once, and the group is able to verify new members are adoptive parents (to ensure a safe space for all attending), you can request to be added to the email list that receives the new link and password each month.

• Facilitated by: Heather Gonzales LPC, an adult adoptee, licensed therapist, and the Founder and Director at Encompass + Olivia Hamilton, a foster and adoptive parent and pastor of The Brood, a ministry for foster, adoptive, and kinship families (This space is designed to be inclusive of all people regardless of your faith/spiritual tradition or lack thereof)

• Currently discussing topics from: Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew

• Discussing ch 9-12

This Program is Hosted, Developed, and Facilitated by Encompass Adoptees

and is currently Funded and Sponsored by Ohio KAN

ABOUT:

This is a casual discussion group meant to support adoptive, fostering, & kinship parents and to build relationships between parents and their adopted/fostered children of all ages through community, conversation, and educational materials.

Each month we discuss part of a book or topic. We do this in an attempt to cover a larger variety of related issues, to increase our knowledge and awareness of the information that is out there, and to maximize our resources for the future. Although not required, sharing personal experiences and asking questions are encouraged. There is No requirement to read the chapters or to come to all discussions. Facilitators are committed to increasing their learning and understanding through the insight and perspective of other triad members, This group offers a safe place to share individual opinions and personal experiences, and ask questions openly and honestly about relinquishment and adoption-related issues.

-NOTE- Encompass Adoptees encourages critical thinking that takes into account all triad members in regard to all books and resources. Book discussions or reading lists in no way imply agreement with all portions of a book, nor does it indicate any endorsement of the author/s, their programs, techniques, etc.

Details at a Glance:

• Meets every 2nd Thursday of the month (except Dec for the holidays)

• In-Person- Meets at Encompass Adoptees at 122 S Terrace Ave, parking is alone the side of the building and on the street

• Facilitated by: Heather Gonzales LPC, an adult adoptee, licensed therapist, and the Founder and Director at Encompass + Amber Riley, the parent of 5 kids, 3 of which are adopted

• Child care is available for families who need this in order to arttend- Preregistion is required at least 1 week in advance - see link below.

• Currently discussing topics from: The Body Keeps the Score

• Discussing Ch - 6

This Program is Hosted, Developed, and Facilitated by Encompass Adoptees and is currently Funded and Sponsored by Ohio KAN

This is a casual dinner to enjoy good food and good conversations, with other adult adopted and fostered, and/or kinshipped people. This group meets every first Thursday of the month, and rotates between dinners at the Market and online presentation given by Adult Adoptee Therapist. See schedule below.

Until the weather warms up, we will meet at East Market - Choose what you want for dinner from the vendors and join us at a table to eat and chat!

• RSVP is helpful, but not necessary- there is plenty of seating.

• Find us upstairs- get what food you want then go up the stairs by the Plant Gays booth and you will see us

• Conversation is casual and self-directed - no one is forced to talk and there are no discussion questions prepared beforehand

• Support Group Schedule 2024:

  • JAN 4 - Adult Adoptee Dinner @ East Market

  • FEB 1 - Adult Adoptee Therapist online presentation- Pamala Cordano on Attachment specific differences for adoptees

  • MARCH 7 - Adult Adoptee Dinner @ East Market

  • APRIL 4 - Adult Adoptee Therapist online presentation- JaeHee Chung Sherman on adoption, self-harm, and suicide

  • MAY 2- Adult Adoptee Dinner @ East Market

  • June 6- Adult Adoptee online Presentation - Astrid Castro on the intersection of history, adoption and mental health

About:

This is a casual discussion group meant to support adoptive, fostering, & kinship parents and to build relationships between parents and their adopted/fostered children of all ages through community, conversation, and educational materials.

Each month we discuss part of a book or topic. We do this in an attempt to cover a larger variety of related issues, to increase our knowledge and awareness of the information that is out there, and to maximize our resources for the future. Although not required, sharing personal experiences and asking questions are encouraged. There is No requirement to read the chapters or to come to all discussions. Facilitators are committed to increasing their learning and understanding through the insight and perspective of other triad members, This group offers a safe place to share individual opinions and personal experiences, and ask questions openly and honestly about relinquishment and adoption-related issues.

-NOTE- Encompass Adoptees encourages critical thinking that takes into account all triad members in regard to all books and resources. Book discussions or reading lists in no way imply agreement with all portions of a book, nor does it indicate any endorsement of the author/s, their programs, techniques, etc.

Details at a Glance:

• Meets every 1st Thursday of the month (except Dec for the holidays)

• Online/ Zoom group -Please email us or pre-register in order to get the zoom link. After you have come once, and the group is able to verify new members are adoptive parents (to ensure a safe space for all attending), you can request to be added to the email list that receives the new link and password each month.

• Facilitated by: Heather Gonzales LPC, an adult adoptee, licensed therapist, and the Founder and Director at Encompass + Olivia Hamilton, a foster and adoptive parent and pastor of The Brood, a ministry for foster, adoptive, and kinship families (This space is designed to be inclusive of all people regardless of your faith/spiritual tradition or lack thereof)

• Currently discussing topics from: Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew

• Discussing ch 7 & 8

This Program is Hosted, Developed, and Facilitated by Encompass Adoptees

and is currently Funded and Sponsored by Ohio KAN

Relinquishment & Relationships

by Carissa Woodwyk MFT, Adult Adoptee Therapist

Encompass Adoptees Adoption Issues Online Speaker Series

Presentation Description:

Those who have been adopted have experienced the loss of significant attachment figures AND the gain of new attachment figures. We want to love and receive love and feel loved, but it’s super tricky when those who are “supposed to” love you, leave you. We can easily find ourselves playing games, playing roles, protecting ourselves - from ourselves, from others. Relationships can feel risky when your story started with distorted messages. We want to feel close and connected, but our brains and bodies and hearts don’t always know how, don’t always believe that we’re lovable and capable and worthy of love. In this webinar, you’ll learn about the relational barriers adopted persons hold, and what we each can do to soften and strengthen and open what’s inside us and between us as we practice building meaningful relationships together.

This presentation is designed for participants of ALL skill/familiarity levels (Beginner, Intermediate, Advanced).

Presenter Bio:

Carissa Woodwyk (she/her) is a Korean-born, mid-west living, pastor’s kid, onion farmer’s wife and recovering good girl. She steps into (or leaps into) a few roles that help her expand the west Michigan culture that surrounds her: 

• licensed counselor/marriage and family therapist

• clinical supervisor for counselors/marriage and family therapists

• co-chair of her local school district’s diversity + advocacy committee

• committee member of her school district’s sex education advisory board

• writer and speaker for the human heart

• mom of a tech-filled, 21st century 10th grade daughter and 7th grade son

• partner to her enneagram opposite and safe place

• gatherer of people, laughter and joy

• student to the ways life makes her both stronger and more tender

Cost:

$15 Reduced Rate Due to partial funding given by Ohio Kinect/ KAN

This Program is sponsored by funding from Ohio Kinnect.

About:

This is a casual discussion group meant to support adoptive, fostering, & kinship parents and to build relationships between parents and their adopted/fostered children of all ages through community, conversation, and educational materials.

Each month we discuss part of a book or topic. We do this in an attempt to cover a larger variety of related issues, to increase our knowledge and awareness of the information that is out there, and to maximize our resources for the future. Although not required, sharing personal experiences and asking questions are encouraged. There is No requirement to read the chapters or to come to all discussions.

-NOTE- Encompass Adoptees encourages critical thinking that takes into account all triad members in regard to all books and resources. Book discussions or reading lists in no way imply agreement with all portions of a book, nor does it indicate any endorsement of the author/s, their programs, techniques, etc. Individual opinions and personal experiences with these items can be shared and discussed during the group meetings, and questions are encouraged.

Details at a Glance:

• Meets every 2nd Thursday of the month (except Dec for the holidays)

• In-Person- Meets at Encompass Adoptees at 122 S Terrace Ave, parking is alone the side of the building and on the street

• Currently discussing topics from: The Body Keeps the Score

• Discussing Ch - TBA (due to the potential heaviness of this book, pace is determined by the group, and number of chapters are selected by attendees each meeting)

• Child care is available for families who need this in order to arttend- Preregistion is required at least 1 week in advance - see link below.

Facilitators:

Both of the Encompass Adoptee parent groups are co-facilitated by Heather Gonzales, an adult adoptee, and the Founder and Director at Encompass. She is currently doing her internship to become a licensed therapist at Chrysalis Family Solutions and specializes in working with adoptees and their families. An adoptive parent helps co-facilitate each group- Amber Riley co-facilitates the in-person group. She is the parent of 5 kids, 3 of which are adopted. And Olivia Hamilton will be co-facilitating the online group. She is a foster and adoptive parent and pastor of The Brood, a ministry for foster, adoptive, and kinship families. (Please Note - This space is designed to be inclusive of all people regardless of your faith/spiritual tradition or lack thereof. All are welcome!)

All facilitators are committed to increasing their learning and understanding through the insight and perspective of other triad members, This group offers a safe place to share and ask questions openly and honestly about relinquishment and adoption-related issues. Both groups will be discussing the same topics and you are free to join either or switch back and forth as needed.

This Program is Hosted, Developed, and Facilitated by Encompass Adoptees and is currently Funded and Sponsored by Ohio KAN

The Disenfranchised Grief of Adoption

by Janet P. Nordine, MS, LMFT, RPT-S, Adult Adoptee Therapist

Encompass Adoptees Adoption Issues Online Speaker Series

Presentation Description:

Utilizing therapeutic concepts, information regarding the neuroscience of grief, and real-world experiences of Disenfranchised Grief, participants will come away with a new understanding of how Disenfranchised Grief affects their lives and informs their thoughts!  Take away ideas will be given to help the individuals talk about their emotions, support the process of grieving, and to understand that where there is deep love, there will be deep grief.   We will share ideas to help caregivers talk to their adopted children about the concept of Disenfranchised Grief. 

This presentation is designed for audience members with an intermediate skill level/familiarity with the topic.

Presenter Bio:

Janet Nordine is a Nevada Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, A Registered Play Therapist Supervisor with The Association for Play Therapy, and Nevada Board Approved Supervisor for Marriage and Family Therapist and Clinical Professional Counselor interns.She works with adults, children, and families from all walks of life to achieve their goals. Janet is a faculty member with The West Coast Institute for Gestalt Therapy with Children and Adolescents where she provides training from the Gestalt perspective.  Janet has a special interest in attachment and interpersonal neurobiology and uses neuroscience-informed therapy with all clients.  Play is an integral part of therapy with each client. She is a sought-after teacher, presenter, facilitator, and podcast guest. She often presents on the topics of the importance of play, working with the inner self, and adoption-related topics. 

Janet has a special place in her heart for children in foster care and children who are adopted.  She is an expert in adoption as she has been adopted her whole life, which gives her special insights into the needs of children and adults who have experienced relinquishment and disconnect from their families of origin.  

 Janet has lived in Las Vegas her entire life. In a “previous life,” she worked in the Las Vegas hotel industry and understands the unique culture of the city. She has interests in the local food scene, live Theatre, travel and loves to read, write, and explore life through lived experiences. She is a wife and mother to 2 amazing adult children and one really cute dog. 

Cost:

$15 Reduced Rate — This Program is sponsored by funds from Ohio Kinnect.

About:

This is a casual discussion group meant to support adoptive, fostering, & kinship parents and to build relationships between parents and their adopted/fostered children of all ages through community, conversation, and educational materials.

Each month we discuss part of a book or topic. We do this in an attempt to cover a larger variety of related issues, to increase our knowledge and awareness of the information that is out there, and to maximize our resources for the future. Although not required, sharing personal experiences and asking questions are encouraged. There is No requirement to read the chapters or to come to all discussions.

-NOTE- Encompass Adoptees encourages critical thinking that takes into account all triad members in regard to all books and resources. Book discussions or reading lists in no way imply agreement with all portions of a book, nor does it indicate any endorsement of the author/s, their programs, techniques, etc. Individual opinions and personal experiences with these items can be shared and discussed during the group meetings, and questions are encouraged.

Details at a Glance:

• NEW** Meets every 1st Thursday of the month (except Dec for the holidays)

• Online/ Zoom group -Please email us or pre-register in order to get the zoom link. After you have come once, and the group is able to verify new members are adoptive parents (to ensure a safe space for all attending), you can request to be added to the email list that receives the new link and password each month.

• Currently discussing topics from: Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew

• Discussing ch 7 & 8

Facilitators:

Both of the Encompass Adoptee parent groups are co-facilitated by Heather Gonzales, an adult adoptee, and the Founder and Director at Encompass. She is currently doing her internship to become a licensed therapist at Chrysalis Family Solutions and specializes in working with adoptees and their families. An adoptive parent helps co-facilitate each group- Amber Riley co-facilitates the in-person group. She is the parent of 5 kids, 3 of which are adopted. And Olivia Hamilton will be co-facilitating the online group. She is a foster and adoptive parent and pastor of The Brood, a ministry for foster, adoptive, and kinship families. (Please Note - This space is designed to be inclusive of all people regardless of your faith/spiritual tradition or lack thereof. All are welcome!)

All facilitators are committed to increasing their learning and understanding through the insight and perspective of other triad members, This group offers a safe place to share and ask questions openly and honestly about relinquishment and adoption-related issues. Both groups will be discussing the same topics and you are free to join either or switch back and forth as needed.

This Program is Hosted, Developed, and Facilitated by Encompass Adoptees and is currently Funded and Sponsored by Ohio KAN

About:

This is a casual discussion group meant to support adoptive, fostering, & kinship parents and to build relationships between parents and their adopted/fostered children of all ages through community, conversation, and educational materials.

Each month we discuss part of a book or topic. We do this in an attempt to cover a larger variety of related issues, to increase our knowledge and awareness of the information that is out there, and to maximize our resources for the future. Although not required, sharing personal experiences and asking questions are encouraged. There is No requirement to read the chapters or to come to all discussions.

-NOTE- Encompass Adoptees encourages critical thinking that takes into account all triad members in regard to all books and resources. Book discussions or reading lists in no way imply agreement with all portions of a book, nor does it indicate any endorsement of the author/s, their programs, techniques, etc. Individual opinions and personal experiences with these items can be shared and discussed during the group meetings, and questions are encouraged.

Details at a Glance:

• Meets every 2nd Thursday of the month (except Dec for the holidays)

• In-Person- Meets at Encompass Adoptees at 122 S Terrace Ave, parking is alone the side of the building and on the street

• Currently discussing topics from: The Body Keeps the Score

• Discussing Ch - 4

• Child care is available for families who need this in order to arttend- Preregistion is required at least 1 week in advance - see link below.

Facilitators:

Both of the Encompass Adoptee parent groups are co-facilitated by Heather Gonzales, an adult adoptee, and the Founder and Director at Encompass. She is currently doing her internship to become a licensed therapist at Chrysalis Family Solutions and specializes in working with adoptees and their families. An adoptive parent helps co-facilitate each group- Amber Riley co-facilitates the in-person group. She is the parent of 5 kids, 3 of which are adopted. And Olivia Hamilton will be co-facilitating the online group. She is a foster and adoptive parent and pastor of The Brood, a ministry for foster, adoptive, and kinship families. (Please Note - This space is designed to be inclusive of all people regardless of your faith/spiritual tradition or lack thereof. All are welcome!)

All facilitators are committed to increasing their learning and understanding through the insight and perspective of other triad members, This group offers a safe place to share and ask questions openly and honestly about relinquishment and adoption-related issues. Both groups will be discussing the same topics and you are free to join either or switch back and forth as needed.

This Program is Hosted, Developed, and Facilitated by Encompass Adoptees and is currently Funded and Sponsored by Ohio KAN

About:

This is a casual discussion group meant to support adoptive, fostering, & kinship parents and to build relationships between parents and their adopted/fostered children of all ages through community, conversation, and educational materials.

Each month we discuss part of a book or topic. We do this in an attempt to cover a larger variety of related issues, to increase our knowledge and awareness of the information that is out there, and to maximize our resources for the future. Although not required, sharing personal experiences and asking questions are encouraged. There is No requirement to read the chapters or to come to all discussions.

-NOTE- Encompass Adoptees encourages critical thinking that takes into account all triad members in regard to all books and resources. Book discussions or reading lists in no way imply agreement with all portions of a book, nor does it indicate any endorsement of the author/s, their programs, techniques, etc. Individual opinions and personal experiences with these items can be shared and discussed during the group meetings, and questions are encouraged.

Details at a Glance:

• NEW** Meets every 1st Thursday of the month (except Dec for the holidays)

• Online/ Zoom group -Please email us or pre-register in order to get the zoom link. After you have come once, and the group is able to verify new members are adoptive parents (to ensure a safe space for all attending), you can request to be added to the email list that receives the new link and password each month.

• Currently discussing topics from: Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew

• Discussing ch 5 & 6

Facilitators:

Both of the Encompass Adoptee parent groups are co-facilitated by Heather Gonzales, an adult adoptee, and the Founder and Director at Encompass. She is currently doing her internship to become a licensed therapist at Chrysalis Family Solutions and specializes in working with adoptees and their families. An adoptive parent helps co-facilitate each group- Amber Riley co-facilitates the in-person group. She is the parent of 5 kids, 3 of which are adopted. And Olivia Hamilton will be co-facilitating the online group. She is a foster and adoptive parent and pastor of The Brood, a ministry for foster, adoptive, and kinship families. (Please Note - This space is designed to be inclusive of all people regardless of your faith/spiritual tradition or lack thereof. All are welcome!)

All facilitators are committed to increasing their learning and understanding through the insight and perspective of other triad members, This group offers a safe place to share and ask questions openly and honestly about relinquishment and adoption-related issues. Both groups will be discussing the same topics and you are free to join either or switch back and forth as needed.

This Program is Hosted, Developed, and Facilitated by Encompass Adoptees and is currently Funded and Sponsored by Ohio KAN